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Friday, September 13, 2013

Cookie Friday: Surprise Cookies

Kate Symmonds!!!
You won the jar of Triple Chip Cookie Mix from Mason Jar Mixes!
YAY!!!
Email me at kadydiddesigns(at)gmail.com to collect your yummy prize!


Alright.  So this week's version of Cookie Friday is a bit sloppy on my end.
Sorry.
 I totally forgot that I was planning on blogging about this until half way through,
and all I had handy was my cell phone to take photos.
So.  The photos are bleh.
My child is half naked,
and my counters are a mess.
But whatever.  That's my real life.
Doesn't everybody bake cookies in just their swim trunks?

This week we made Surprise Cookies (thanks to Martha Stewart), which I have pinned on my Cookie Monster board on Pinterest.
You can find the original recipe for these cookies HERE.
We followed everything as written, and the cookies turned out great.
Obviously.  Not my photo.  Martha Stewart's photo.  Again, the appropriate link...

Not only were they yummy, but they provided lots of helping opportunities for little hands.
These would be perfect for post-camping trip leftovers;
when you have half a bag of marshmallows left from making S'mores.
Or is that just our family?
Anyway.
Kehlton had a blast smooshing the marshmallows down on the cookies.

And he even helped make the frosting to go on top.
(The homemade frosting was delicious.
However, you could totally skip that step and just use store bought.
Sorry, Martha.)

Obviously, these were a huge hit!

If you decide to try these out, let me know how you liked them!

Tuesday, September 10, 2013

Heaven Is Here: A Wake Up Call

I'm a tad bit behind the times and just barely got around to reading Heaven is Here by Stephanie Nielson (the same Stephanie Nielson of the blog The NieNie Dialogues).  I cannot believe how drawn into the book I got; I read the entire thing in less than 24 hours (yes, my house, children and husband were all grossly neglected during those 24 hours).  I absolutely loved it and would highly recommend it to anybody.


And although I didn't agree or appreciate 100% of her story, her story definitely helped me remember a few very important things.

1.  It is a joy and a privilege to be a mother.  Every day may not be perfect.  My house is always in disaster mode. I may lose my temper or feel like I'm going crazy.  Sometimes I just want to wear noise reduction earphones All.Day.Long.  But in the end?  There is absolutely nothing I would rather be doing.  I love my littles more than I could ever describe.  I am lucky to have them and am very aware of how blessed I am to be a stay at home mom.

2.  My husband is amazing, and I need to do a better job of reminding him of that.  He is my best friend.  He is my everything.  I would be a huge puddle of a mess without him.

3.  Nothing matters more than family.  Friends, jobs, hobbies...they all come and go over the years.  However, family doesn't go anywhere.  That is where our most important time and focus needs to be.

4.  I am good enough just as I am.  I may not be as good as a blogger as so and so, I may not be as athletic as the girl down the street.  My clothes from high school may not fit me anymore (and heaven knows they never will again!), but those things do not define who I am.  Constantly comparing myself to other people, or the person I used to be or sometimes even the person I wish to be is poison.  My heart, how I spend my time, the service I provide - THOSE define who I am.

5.  My religion/testimony are a huge part of who I am and I am far too reserved about it.  Don't get me wrong.  I will NEVER be outspoken or pushy about my beliefs.  And I feel like I am very open minded and accepting of others.  I can appreciate that somebody else has a different belief system than I do and I would never try to force them to change their minds.  But does it really hurt if people know that I am a Latter Day Saint?

I tend to not be too personal on this blog; I save that for my family blog.  However, from this point on, you will probably get more information about me and my family than you ever wanted.  Everything I've done with this blog so far will stay the same.  Promoting handmade artisans and small businesses, sharing yummy recipes and fun projects that I do around the house; those will all still be here.   There will just be more mommy stuff,  more family stuff and more real life.

This is my favorite photo from our weekend.  Sunday morning was perfect.  My husband (who has been pretty MIA since he started a new job in June) was home, the weather was cloudy and rainy and all three of my children were happy to just play together for longer than 10 minutes.  I'm talking a couple of hours of happy noises and play with uninterrupted, peaceful, adult conversation with my dear hubby.  It was nothing short of amazing.

How was your weekend?







Wednesday, July 3, 2013

Rice Heating Pad

I'm sure all of you are already familiar with a rice heating pad.  In the small chance that you're not: they are wonderful.  Just a bag filled with rice that you stick in the microwave for a few seconds  and then just plop it on whatever part of your body that's needing some pressure and warmth.  I LOVE them and have always wanted one, but never took the time to make one.

Without going into too much detail...this weekend I had a horrible gallbladder attack. If you've never experienced one; I hope you never do. It's not something I would wish on my worst enemy. This particular attack lasted 3 days. For those of you who do know what I'm talking about; THREE DAYS!!! I was in agony and all I wanted was a rice heating pad to help alleviate the pain. But did I have one? Of course not! So, now that I am back among the living, I hurried and made one this afternoon.

Good news.  This is a great project for using up your scraps.  Even better news?  Seriously took me 15 minutes to do.  Tops.

Okay.  So all you need to do is figure out what size you want.  It can be as big or small as you want.  I had a roommate in college that had a long skinny one (kinda like a long, fat snake).  I knew I wanted mine to be just the right size to lay on my upper tummy area should I have another gallbladder attack before I get this sucker taken out of me.  My perfect size was about 9"x5".

Cut two pieces of fabric that are (obviously) the same size.

With same sides together, sew all around the outside edges, leaving a hole just large enough to a) turn your bag back right side out and b) pour all of your rice in.  If you feel so inclined, go ahead and trim the extra fabric before flipping it back right side out.
Then, pour in your rice!  It just so happens that a 2 lb bag (minus the cup I used with dinner tonight) was the perfect amount for my heating pad.  Be careful that you don't overfill it; you want there to be some "wiggle room" in there for the rice.
When you're done, shove all the rice to one end and quickly and carefully sew up your little hole.  You can do it by hand if you want it to be prettier.  I didn't really care and just wanted it done, so I used my machine.  If you look really close at the photo below, you can see it.
Then, viola!  You have a great little heating pad ready and waiting for you to need it.  I made mine with flannel; I wanted that extra cozy factor added to it.  As you can see it's already a big hit!


Wednesday, January 30, 2013

Hard Things


                                 I found {this} print on Etsy yesterday (via Brightsides Designs)


"I Can Do Hard Things" is my new mantra. 
While plugging along on the treadmill this morning, I probably repeated it a zillion times to myself.

Today, I was ready to quit.
I've been counting calories scrupulously since Little Miss was born almost 4 months ago.
I've been super dedicated to working out; especially the last 3 weeks.
(I've been doing the BodyRock 30 Day Challenge as well as the Couch to 5K training).
This week, I've cut out all extra sugar and treats.
This morning, I made the mistake of weighing in and measuring myself.

IT WAS BAD NEWS BEARS.
Not one ounce or millimeter of difference.
My immediate reaction was "Why?!?  Why am I making myself miserable for nothing?"

I have a dear friend who lets me come run on her treadmill for my Couch to 5K training.  She lets my kids play so I can focus on the task at hand.  She has been ever so helpful in my journey thus far.  Anyway.   I told her I was ready to throw in the towel and she quickly talked me out of it.  She's been in my spot; had 3 babies, tried losing weight while nursing, the whole 9 yards.  As far as fitness and weight loss goes she's light years ahead of me, but having that "buddy" made a world of difference for me today.  So, I did my run, tried to go harder than I did last time, was successful and feel 100 times better about myself than I did this morning.

The moral of the story?  YOU CAN DO HARD THINGS.  Don't give up.  Grab a girlfriend and get moving.  Just a little bit if needs be, but do something.

And seriously?  Come join me on {MyFitnessPal}.  The more the merrier.  We can all use a little help! ;)

Saturday, November 10, 2012

Things I've Learned...

About Being a Mother of 3.

Everybody tried to warn me.
"If you can handle 3, anything more than that is cake."
"3 kids is SO much harder than 2".
"My third child totally rocked my world".
"It took me an entire year to adjust to having 3 kids".

And now, only 4.5 weeks into life with three children, I can definitely say it is more of a challenge.
Don't get me wrong.  This little beauty is more than worth it.



But, as a person who dwells on structure, schedules and plans, 
this new life of, well, absolute chaos, is throwing me for a serious loop.
There is yet to be any planning for anything.  There is absolutely no structure.
And every.single.time I try to schedule anything, it blows up in my face.

So, here is my advice to any of you who are contemplating adding your third bundle of joy
(although I think it could be useful for any addition to your adorable little families!).

1.  Know that it is going to be hard, and then take it easy on yourself.  My biggest frustration was my complete inability to move past the "difficulty" of having 3 kids, and not being able to figure it out within the first 3 weeks of Little Miss' life.  I'm still trying to let go of the fact that I don't have it all together yet, and that in and of itself is making it easier for me.  Don't get me wrong.  I still feel like I'm losing my mind on a daily basis.  And my husband still occasionally comes home to find me in tears.  But.  I'm accepting the fact that for me, right now, that is okay.  (And it is!!)

2.  Allow others to serve you.  I am not one to ask for help.  Like EVER.  Nor am I one to accept it when offered.  I am more than happy to help anybody else in any way I can, but I'm more of a I-can-do-everything-by-myself-thank-you-very-much kind of girl.  But with this baby, I had absolutely no choice but to ask, and accept, the help of others.  Some days I feel like I have used and abused my girlfriends way beyond what is acceptable, but they are lovely and wonderful and never complain.  I have no clue what I would have done the last 2 months without some amazing girlfriends!!  It is OKAY to need help sometimes.  And it is more than okay to accept that help.  If people offer meals?  Take it!  And here's my biggest piece of advice: If they ask when you'd like that meal, ask them to wait until 3 or 4 weeks after you've had the baby.  Chances are good that you will have enough help immediately after you get home.  It's when life gets back to normal and there's no extra help around that those dinners that just show up will be a god-send.

3.  Sometimes, TV is okay for the "olders".  I hate letting my kids just veg in front of the tv.  HATE IT.  But sometimes, a momma's got to do what a momma's got to do!  If letting them watch TV allows me 30 minutes of quiet, "fighting/yelling/whining/destroying the house and/or begging for help" free time so I can feed the baby in peace, so be it.  Their brains aren't going to turn to mush.  And after 3 days (or more?  I sometimes lose count) of not getting a shower, another episode of Super Why is totally worth it.

4.  Take a time out for yourself!!  Walking half way around my block to check our mail is sometimes my favorite part of my day.  And if it weren't for that tiny activity, I could probably go for days without ever leaving my home.  But even that miniscule amount of time allows me a breath of fresh air, 30 seconds of silence and half a minute to shake the cobwebs from my head.  I love it when I manage to sneak in a long, hot shower at night too for the exact same reasons.  And if your kiddos are still away when you're sneaking that long, hot, shower?  LOCK THE DOOR.  

All that said, I absolutely LOVE being a mom.  I love and cherish my 3 little ones more than life itself.  I cannot imagine my life without any of them or the insanity that sometimes comes with them.  They are adorable.  They love me unconditionally.  And even though 3 is hard right now, I know that eventually, we'll get it all ironed out and I'll wonder what all the stress was for!

Sunday, October 21, 2012

Guest Blogger: Baby Night Night Boutique


Our guest blogger today is Tricia from Baby Night, Night Boutique.  Not only does she have her own wonderful {blog}, but she also has an adorable {Etsy shop} as well.  She's a fellow Arizonian - and actually just lives right up the street from me.  I'm so glad to have her visiting my blog today!


Gourmet Baby Food - The Best money saver you will be glad you tried

                              
Pictures via Pinterest


When I became a mom for the first time 4 years ago, I was amazed at how expensive it was to start out with your first kid.  I am sure you all relate to that.  Food and formula expecially.  I was determined to save money.  Since I was only able to nurse a couple of months, I had to spend the rest of that first year buying formula.  EXPENSIVE.  Even using the generic brands.  So I told myself I would make my own baby food.  Why not?  Its so easy and I can make a little here and there, and even eventually when age allowed, puree whatever it was we had for dinner that night.  So wonderful.  Now on baby number 3, I have gotten even more creative with my own baby food, after reading up on my own research.

Before I start, I am doing this post from a different computer and forgot all about my photos on my computer, so I used what I found from Pinterest.  Thanks.

Here are a few things you want to think about when you start your wonderful tasty journey to money saving.

-use fresh, frozen or organic produce.  Sprouts has great prices on their produce, Bountiful Baskets is a GREAT way to get a variety of fresh produce for real cheap.  Walmart price matches, Target price matches to Albertsons, Walmart and Sprouts, BUT YOU HAVE TO BRING IN THE ADD.
if you decide to use canned food, you will have let nutrients.  But it is still just fine to get your baby started, or if you need a quick fix.  Make sure your vegitables are unsalted and your fruits are in water NOT Syrup.  Rinse the food before processing.

-use Filtered water, or Nursery water that is found in Grocery stores in the baby section to add to your food when pureeing it

-Wait three feedings when introducing new foods so you can see if there are any allergies

-You dont' necessarily have to use bland food.  If you are nursing your baby, they are already customed to the flavors through breast milk so go ahead and add a little garlic, or a tad of onion, paprika, butter, or a little salt to flavor the vegis.  They will enjoy their greens believe me. 

-frozen food will last up to 3  months, so label your food properly.  2-3 days in the fridge.

Tools you will find useful:

Blender, food processor.  I have a magic bullet I have had and loved since they day they aired the info-mercial.  ITs fast and has a great little cup.  They make a "Baby Bullet" version, especially made for making baby food.  It comes with storage containers,and freezing trays.
                                                                 

Icecube trays or breast milk storage bags.  On average, each icecube is about 1 0z.  The first stage of baby food is 2-3 oz.  So 3 cubes of food for your beginning baby.  The breast milk storage bags are great for freezing and they are ready for labeling.  Easy to thaw in a bowl of warm water.
                                             


Freezer bags for your seperate foods, beans, peas, carrots, peaches etc...

Now are you ready for some great foods that you probably never realized that your new baby could eat right off the bat?
Avacado...yep.  Its easy to make just mash with a fork. It has the good fats the help your baby develope.
Broccoli, Mandarine Oranges, Lentils, LEafy greens like spinach, blueberries and meat etc...

Basic Tips to preparing food:

Prepare food that is washed.  Steam in a pot on the stove, a steamer, or microwave.  Use filtered water.  Pour food in a large bowl once cooked, to cool before blending.  For first beginner foods, especially, make sure it is blended completely.  Food should have the consistancy of apple sauce.  Not too thick, but not too thin.  Blend completely adding filtered water as needed.  Pour food into icecube trays or breast mild storage bags to freeze.  after they are mostly frozen, then transfer them to a freezer bag that is labeled clearly with the date.  Food will last 2-3 days in the fridge or up to 3 months in the freezer.  Make sure all the air is out of the bag each time you open it.
                                              


RECIPES!  YAY!

you have your basics for first foods.  Remember don't combine foods til you know they are not allergic.  Then "cocktail" it up.

Mixed vegis. beans, corn, peas, carrots and sweet potatoes, 1 tsp butter, pinch of garlic powder, water. blend.

Sweet Potatoes and Pears and water

Mashed red potatoes, corn, beans, a little butter, pinch of garlic, rosemary water.

Sweet Potatoes, Spinach and Chicken, a little butter, water blend

Canned Pumpkin

Dried Prunes, water

Blueberries, bananas, rolled oats (cooked)

Apples and Carrots.  (cookd the apples if boiling water) water

mandarine oranges.  These are really runny so they are great to add in cereals like a juice

salmon, green beans and rice (cooked), water, garlic, butter

pasta and meatballs with a little marinara sauce, water

Rice cereal:  Cooked rice mixed with formual, blend really well

Yogurt Bites:  Your favorite flavourd yogurt, put into sandwich baggie, cut a corner at the tip, then pour little dabbles the size of a dime on a tray.  Freeze.  Put into baggies.  These are great little snacks for at home and cheaper than buying the yogurt bites at the store.

if you need more food ideas, walk the baby food section and write down what the store brands are doing. once allergies are determined then prepare food as you want.  the more flavours and varieties they are exposed to garaunteed the better eater your toddler will be.  Start good eating habits now.  YOu won't regret it.  PUree the dinner you had at the restaurant!  PUree anything you would eat, Leaving out Honey, Corn Syrup (botulism issues) and dairy products til your Dr recommends its ok.

Enjoy your new venture.  I still can't believe how expensive it can be if you constantly bought baby food.  This is a great healter, easier, more cost effective way to make your baby happy.

Friday, October 19, 2012

Guest Blogger: Two In Diapers


Hi! I'm Cassie! I normally blog over at Two In Diapers, but I'm super thrilled to be filling in for Alyssa today over here at Kadydid Designs! Thanks so much for having me, friend!


 I am the overly proud momma of three precious kiddos, ages 4, 2, and 1. Two In Diapers is my home sweet home for sharing the everyday and many-times hilarious events that happen in our busy household!


I thought I'd try to give you a quick picture of one of the many moments that occur around our home!

I was busy doing this or that, and happen to look down in the family room where Grayson {14 months} was playing quietly... 

...just in time to see articles of
once-neatly-folded clothing flying one by one across the room at the
hand of a tiny and very busy little boy
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 I suppressed a giggle, as I watched
the basket empty completely in about 30 seconds flat.

Satisfied, Grayson crawled away... with a pair of his big sister Emily's itty-bitty panties attached to his foot.


 Love brief moments like these! Motherhood is so much about appreciating the humor in every situation!



If you found any part of this story funny, or even just enjoy looking at photos of cute kids, then you should definitely come on over and follow our story at Two In Diapers!

Thanks again, Alyssa, for letting me come over and visit today! 


Wednesday, October 17, 2012

Guest Blogger: Stringtown Home

First of all, I would like to say, "Thank you!" to Alyssa for letting me join in as a guest author today!  I enjoy Katydid Designs so much!  Congrats to you on the new little one.... May your nights be restful & your days be full of tiny giggles!

Today I want to share with you a recipe that was my "go to" meal after I had my daughter.  It is so. stinkin'. easy.  The best part about it?  You can make it ahead, and freeze it.... Oooooorr you can just throw the ingredients in the crock pot & let it simmer all day....




Ingredients:

1 15 oz can light red kidney beans
1 15 oz can whole kernel corn
1 15 oz can pinto beans
1 15 oz can black beans
1 15 oz can diced tomato
1 lb browned ground beef
2 packs taco seasoning
1 tablespoon garlic salt

Now, are you ready for this?! 

Just throw it all into the pot... don't drain your canned veggies (that makes it soupy).  Cook on medium for approx. 1 hour.  Then garnish with your favorite taco toppings.  (My fam goes for cheese, cheese, more cheese, corn chips & green onions, & cheese.)

I really hope your family enjoys this hearty soupy goodness.... it's so good. 

Sending hugs & love from Stringtown Home








Make the best of your today!

Heather

http://stringtownhome.blogspot.com

Monday, October 15, 2012

Guest Blogger: Cutiful - "Hungry Mommy"

Hi there!

Let me introduce myself: I'm Vanessa from the blog Cutiful. I'm a young mom to an adorable baby girl who inspires me to create lovely handmade toys & accessories! I met Alyssa a few months ago through Etsy where we both have our shops (you can visit us here & here!) As you must all know, Alyssa is having a new baby so I'm pleased to take over for a little guest blog post! :) A new mommy's gotta rest, right!

I personally LOOOOOVE to cook (I'm most probably one of Jamie Oliver's biggest fan! Haha!) but we all know that when you get back from the hospital with a new baby, you don't always have time (or you simply don't want) to cook...especially if this is not your 1st child! I can imagine how busy a house can be with older kids to take care of! But we all know that it is quite important to eat as healthy as possible, especially if you are nursing!

So, for my 1st ever guest blog post (Thanks again Alyssa!), I decided to share some quick & easy recipes & some little tips to try to make mealtime as easy as possible...Some of these ideas can be prepared in advance (a.k.a put in the freezer for further use)...and other ideas are in my opinion great gifts to bring to a new mom. So here we go, let's get cooking! :)

 #1.Muffins!
These are perfect for breakfast on the go! What I usually do is A) double or triple a muffin recipe, then freeze the mixture in separate bowls (approximately a dozen muffins per bowl)...You simply put the frozen mixture in the fridge before going to sleep and then in the morning, it's ready to go! Simply fill your muffins cups and swing that in the oven for fresh muffins! Yummy!!! B) you can also cook all your muffins ahead of time and freeze them individually. If you prefer eating them hot, you can simply pop them a few minutes in the oven before eating them!

I'm a huge fan of zucchini & chocolate muffins...and I think carrots comes second!

Zucchini & Chocolate muffins
Carrots, Bananas & Raisins muffins
Planning to go visit some friends of yours to meet their new & precious little one? Why don't you cook them a dozen! ;)


#2. Smoothie & Shakes!
These are so quick to do, and you can find some pretty tasteful, healthy & satisfying recipes out there (Pinterest is a great source of inspiration for EVERYTHING, including recipes!!! I admit, I'm a real Pinterest addict!) For example, this yummy recipe: 



Creamy Chocolate Avocado Smoothie
I only wish I had that recipe a year ago when I was nursing my daughter and was sometime skipping a meal (I confess!) You can also find a lot of "Green Smoothie" such as these...

Spinach Green Smoothie

Kale Green Smoothie
I know what you are thinking... "Spinach or Kale in a smoothie, really?!?!" Yes really!!! Have you ever tried it? You should! :) I think these kind of recipes can easily become a must for busy nursing moms!


 #3. Dumplings!
I absolutely love dumplings! Yes they take time to prepare, but once you have a batch ready, you can easily froze them. After that, it's a real no brainer, you simply have to steam them or boil them! About 2-3 weeks before giving birth, I did a bunch and let me tell you, I was really glad I did! I also did a "dumpling party" with one of my pregnant friend before she gave birth. I think this is a great, thoughtful gift to make for expecting parents! Yummy with some peanut sauce (you can make yours or simply buy some ready made to speed the process!) Here is a recipe to inspire you...this one uses pork & tofu but you can change the meat if you'd like, or even use sea food! I usually do mine with pork & shrimp, a classic. I like this recipe because all the steps all clearly illustrated, perfect for 1st timers!

Korean dumplings
Homemade peanut sauce recipe


What was your favorite thing to eat/cook after giving birth? I'm sure you all have plenty of ideas & recipes in mind...Feel free to share, I guess Alyssa will be pretty happy to have some more suggestions! :)


Happy cooking everyone!









Friday, October 12, 2012

Guest Blogger: and here's to you, Mrs. Robinson

While I am out on my little maternity leave, I have an entire line of guest bloggers set up for you! I am so grateful for each of these ladies who have stepped up to help me out. First up is Megan from {and here's to you, Mrs. Robinson}. I love reading her blog; it's so refreshing and honest and uplifting.

Take it away, Megan!

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Before I became a mother, I had a whole list of things I was going to do every day
and things I refused to ever do.
I thought I knew how it would go down.
I set high expectations for myself and my baby {who I had yet to meet}.
And because I had such high standards, if I didn't live up to them I thought I was a terrible mother.
There were many times I would read books, articles, and yes, some other mommy blogs and think,
"I don't do that. My baby doesn't do that. What is wrong with us?"
I would beat myself up so much about it that at times it was hard for me to enjoy what was really there.




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And what was really there was a happy, loving, beautiful baby boy who loved me.
A healthy, chubby son with big brown eyes and a head full of baldness.
A crazy mover and shaker who refused to stay still and taught himself to roll, crawl, and walk very early on.
A new, eternal, incredible bond between my son and I that I would cherish forever.
And all of the other wonderful things that come with motherhood.
It took me a while but I eventually learned my most important lesson of motherhood:
I AM THE MOTHER.
I am the mother. Me. Not my neighbor, not my friend, not other bloggers, not even my doctor.
Me.
And only I know my baby best.
I know how he likes to be held at night to go to sleep.
I know how he likes to cuddle, feeling safe and warm in my arms.
I know how he eats, sleeps, and likes to play.
I know how he learns and how he interacts.
I know.
I know.
Yes, books and friends and blogs all have their place.
There were many times where I was at a complete loss and needed to turn to someone for help and they were there. But it was still very important that I used my own gut and intuition to know what was right for me and my son.




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My son and I are both very happy even though most of the things I said I would do {or never do} didn't actually happen.
He is happy because I learned to recognize his needs, his temperament, and let him be himself.
I am happy because I have lowered the expectations for myself greatly and have tried to take it day by day, enjoying all the sweet moments.
Motherhood is not easy. Nor is it the same experience for everyone.
We are all different. Our children are different.
But we are all meant to be together with our children for a reason.
I know my son was meant specifically for me.
I know he was meant to bring special blessings only meant for me.
He brings me such great happiness that I never thought was possible.
And when I remember to trust myself and my own abilities, the stresses of living up to an unknown standard melts away and I am able to be the best mother to my son that I can be.

Wednesday, October 10, 2012

Guest Blogger: Hi! It's Jilly!

Okay...I am "officially" on maternity leave for a bit!  In fact, as I'm typing this I am timing contractions and hoping to go to the hospital soon.  I hope you enjoy all the guest bloggers I have lined up for the next few weeks.  Be sure to check out all their cute blogs and give them some love!  And a huge thanks to all the ladies who are helping me out!!

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Hi! It’s Jilly. I am SO excited to be guest posting here today. Alyssa was one of my first friends when we moved to our new house a few years ago, and I am tickled pink that she is finally having a sweet little girl join her family soon!

A little introduction to me…I have been married to my hubby for 10 years. He is a podiatry resident. We have 7 year old TRIPLETS. Yes, you read that right. TRIPLETS- 2 girls & 1 boy. On my blog I like to write  about TV characters that annoy mehome & craft projects, recipes, and anything else in my crazy life that tickles my fancy!

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picture taken by Ashley at Ashley Moore Photography in Arizona

Today I’d like to share with you the Top 5 Ways to Help Out a New Mom. As a mother of triplets I needed a LOT of help when those kiddos came home from the hospital! I wouldn’t have survived without help from my sweet husband, friends, family, and people from my church.


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So, here we go…

#1- Don’t be shy. Give her a call, ask what you can do to help, and be willing to do whatever she needs. It might even be something seemingly silly, like running an errand, watching the baby while she showers, or cleaning her bathroom. Don’t be afraid to see a need & jump in to help.

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#2- Be understanding. Sometimes as a new mom it’s hard to ask for help, or you might be so sleep-deprived that you just don’t want to see anyone. That’s ok. If the new momma doesn’t want visitors, don’t feel offended. Try another day, or leave an encouraging note on her door. Figuring things out when you’re a new mom can be difficult sometimes.

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#3- Bring her a meal. And, it doesn’t always have to be dinner, either. Bring over  stuff to make an easy breakfast (bagels, cream cheese, fruit) or lunch (rolls, lunchmeat, cheese), or an assortment of snacks. People have to eat breakfast and lunch, too! And, the snacks are important, too, especially if she is nursing.

If you want to coordinate dinners for her there is a great website called TakeThemAMeal.com. People can sign up with when & what they’re bringing, so everyone’s on the same page & not bringing the same casserole 3 days in a row! And, it sends a reminder e-mail the day before you signed up to bring the meal, so you don’t forget. Easy peasy!
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#4- Save the advice. Sometimes it’s tempting to give the new mom a ton of information, but it’s not always welcome. In fact, it can be down-right overwhelming!  If the new mom asks for advice, then feel free to share, but just remember that every child and every parent is different. Not every method works on every child. Let her figure out what’s best for her child, and don’t get offended if she doesn’t take your advice.

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#5- Be a friend. When swimming in the sleep-deprived haze of new-mom-dom it is easy to lose yourself and feel pretty non-human! Let your friend know she is not alone, and give her a chance to socialize. Go on a walk around the block with her, send her a funny postcard, bring her a package of her favorite candy, send a light-hearted text or e-mail, etc. These RAOK will brighten her day. 

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I hope some of these tips helped! I know the new mom in your life will appreciate any help you can give her! And, if you are a new mom yourself, feel free to share this post with any well-meaning friends and family who want to help, but don't know how. 

Thanks again, Alyssa, for having me guest post on your blog today! I hope your little one arrives without any complications, and I wish I could see her in person!

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Saturday, September 8, 2012

Baby Shower Giveaway: Scarlets Naturals

Happy Saturday!!  Ready for another amazing giveaway?!?!
If this is the first time you've stopped by, be sure to go back and start at the very beginning and work your way back here!  This is Day 7 of our Baby Shower Giveaway!!

Okay. I have to give a personal plug for today's giveaway. For two reasons, actually. First of all, the owner of Scarlet's Naturals is a friend of mine; we taught Head Start together in Utah. Desiree is awesome and I love her to pieces. Secondly, I've been using her products for awhile, and I am IN LOVE with them. I actually bought some of her lotion to stock up before my little one gets here, but I'm going to have to order more because I'm using it all up ON ME!!!

Desiree started making these products for her own daughter (Scarlet), who has super sensitive skin.  All of their products are completely natural and use honey and/or beeswax from their own personal beehives.  How fun is that?!?  So today's giveaway contains 3 products.  The winner of today's giveaway will receive:

A 4oz tin of Hiney Honey Cream 
(great for diaper rashes, and is unscented. I have used this several times on my toddler and it works great!)
 A tube of Lip Honey just for you!
 And, a 6 oz bottle of Honey Lotion in Oatmeal Milk and Honey 
(this is the stuff I keep using up on myself rather than saving it for baby...)
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Wednesday, September 5, 2012

Baby Shower Giveaway: Ding and Kennie

Our giveaway today is perfect for brand new mommies, courtesy of Ding and Kennie!


Lisa will be giving away a 6 Pack Starter Set of Eco Friendly Washable and Reusable Nursing Pads.

                                       *the fabrics you receive will be Lisa's choice*

Follow the entries via Rafflecopter below to be entered to win!

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